Thursday, January 25, 2018

Texan Idioms

Wanna learn some idioms or funny phrases originated from Texas with me?
As a newly moved resident here in Texas, I am pretty much interested in local colors especially in language. Let us explore some interesting and appealing expressions of this Lone Star State together!

Guess the meanings of the given expressions (in the box) and fill in the blanks of the following sentences.
madder than a wet hen,   all hat and no cattle,   more than you can shake a stick at,     ready and rarin’ to go,       bless your heart,    sure n’uff,     y’all,
fixin’ to

1. Just can’t wait to go to the concert!!! I am __________________ to go~!

2. The famous Southern cook Paula Deen opens her cooking show by saying “Hey, _____________! Welcome to Paula Deen show!”

3. A: What’s up, man? You look so pissed!
    B: I’m ________________________________ because my room mate took my new car without telling me last night! Gosh!

4. A: What are you doing now?    B: I’m __________________ go shopping for groceries.

5. After I proved the southerner wrong, they looked me straight in the eye and said "_________________________.", which, I later realized, was totally a four letter word in Texas!

6. Jared says he is super rich and normally makes a lot of money. He even says he wishes to buy my business, but after checking his credit references I've found that he's__________________________________.

7. At the protest there will be more homeless people than ______________________________________.

8. A: Dang! That lady is a real looker!    B: Yup, she ________________ is!


Answer Keys and Clues
1. ready and rain’ (meaning ready and excited/ revving and keen to do ~)
2. y’all (meaning you all/ you guys)
3. madder than a wet hen (meaning ‘to be very angry’)
4. fixin’ to (meaning about to do…/ just get ready to do…)
5. Bless your heart (which is an expression of pity used by southerners/ or southern euphemism for F-word)
6. all hat and no cattle (meaning  someone is all talk and no action/substance. Someone who dresses nicely but doesn't really have any money)
7. more than you can shake a stick at (meaning a lot, too many, tons)

8. sure n’uff (meaing sure enough – usually used to express agreement)

Thursday, January 18, 2018

Stranger in Texas

Wrapping up the decade of life in one place and moving to some unfamiliar region did not sound very heartsome or attractive to me at all. Besides the fact that I am not the kind of person who welcomes a challenge or any kind of abrupt changes in life, leaving those friends of mine who have known me so well enough to read my mind without asking was like a home truth or some kind of a bad plisky of your destination.
However, I know for sure it all depends on how you look at things in life. Change could mean building new expectation, not just being pushed to venture out of the comfort zone. It is no one else but you that creates another happy chapter in life. Having to say goodbye to the old friends of yours doesn’t and should not mean at all to sever all ties with them in your future life. Leaving them would rather make your hearts grow fonder and realize once again how precious those people are to you. To me, living in a new place means having a new addition of human relationships to the existing group of wonderful friends that I am blessed to have.
Daily affirmation goes like this: “Worries or concerns laid aside. No need to think of worst case scenarios. Take a deep breath and soak up the Texan heat. Ev’thang is gonna ah’ite!”



Expressions

heartsome: (adjective) cheerful/ giving cheer or spirit/ encouraging

hometruth: (noun) an indisputable fact or basic truth, especially one whose accuracy may cause discomfort or embarrassment

plisky: (noun = adjective) a mischievous trick; practical joke; prank.

to venture out of….: (verb) to go out of something cautiously

to sever all ties with ….: (verb) To break up a relationship


Ev’thang is gonna ah’ite.: (Texan diction/ dialect) Everything is going to be alright.

Thursday, January 4, 2018

American College Slangs/ Idioms

We see a lot of international students on college campuses in the States today. A lot of them are identified as American with their own ethnic backgrounds, whereas quite a lot of them are called “FOB” that stands for “Fresh Off the Boat”, meaning the ones who have just come to America or immigrants. Sadly, quite often times, FOB is used with a pejorative or not very pleasant connotation towards the immigrants. L
This week, let me share some English slangs or idiomatic expressions that are often used among college students. (*source from https://share.america.gov/learn-some-american-college-slang/)

  1.   GPA Killer: (noun)
GPA stands for “Grade Point Average”, so GPA killer refers to a very challenging/ difficult course that could be detrimental to your grade. Synonymous expressions include grade RIPer/ death trap

  2.   to ace a test/ exam: (verb) to get the best grade possible

  3.   to put an all-nighter: (verb) to burn the midnight oil/ to study all night long

  4.   to pregame: (verb) to go to a small party before a bigger party

  5.   underwater basket weaving: (noun) an insulting name for an elective class that doesn’t count toward a graduation requirement or for a class that is particularly easy. It is also interchangeably used with Netflixer/ bird course/ sleeper/ snoozer


  6.   NARP: (acronym) Non-Athletic Regular Person (or Random Person)
            A term the athletes on campus use to describe the rest of the student body or a person with minimal athletic ability and very low game spitting skills.

  7.   to cupcake: (verb) to flirt or talk sweet to someone you like
   
  
  Time to practice the above expressions!

  1.   A: Man. You looks totally prepared for the midterms!
      B: Yes, I am confident enough to _________________ all the tests this       semester. I’ve been pulling an ______________________ for the last few       weeks.

  2.   Is Mr. Redford’s class one of those _________________________________ courses that most kids would sign up for good grades?

  3.   No way, his class is so-called a ____________________________ that would destroy your college life. You are required to turn in a time-consuming paper every week.

  4.   Mary-Jane has had enough with Tommy. She says Tommy keeps cheating on her and never stops ________________________ with other girls.

  5.   A: Are you coming to Burt’s house tonight before joining the end-of-the-year party?
B: No, I won’t ___________________ tonight, because I need to be sober at the year-end get-together.

  6.   Dan was always viewed as a ___________________ by his friends in his basketball team. He loves basketball but not very good at it.
  
  
  Answer Keys

  1.   ace, all-nighter
  2.   underwater basket-weaving/ bird course/ Netflixer/ sleeper/ snoozer
  3.   GPA killer/ grade RIPer/ death trap
  4.   cupcaking
  5.   pregame
  6.   NARP


Friday, December 29, 2017

What the year of 2017 meant for me

Around this time of every year, I normally find myself sitting in a quiet corner of my room with my eyes closed, focusing on my breathing, and trying to recollect the past 12 months filled with lots of expected and unexpected events and episodes. This past year started with the most unforgettably sad incident in my life. My father passed away on the 13th of January, and it was snowing a lot outside. The sudden rush of raw feeling of loss and emptiness has engulfed and flooded through me as its bitterly cold and unfamiliar reminder each time special days come along: Father’s day, his birthday, mother’s birthday, my parents’ 52nd anniversary, my birthday, Christmas, to name a few. 

I do not believe it is possible for anyone to completely come to terms with their beloved parents’ or sibling’s or children’s deaths no matter how long ago they happened. I am no the exception. It is not about forgetting or avoiding the saddest day of our lives, but more about remembering and cherishing the shared time with our loved ones. Saying goodbye to someone or something special in our lives doesn’t necessarily mean that we are apart from them. In the midst of going through a loss of loving folks, we see things clearer and learn how to live in this right moment to the fullest. We realize there’s no such thing as a “guaranteed tomorrow” as we age. Then, why wait for later to say you love them so much?

As we were preparing the inter-State moving lately (from a small, peaceful Midwest town named Peoria in Illinois to a somewhat more upbeat and busier city named San Antonio in Texas), once again, we reached a point of saying goodbye to our close friends of a decade made in our good old town. It was hard to hold back tears and smile while sharing goodbye hugs and taking pictures together, but I knew for sure that every single day since I left for a new home place would be more packed with my love, thoughts, and fonder heart for them.


The year of 2017 has seemed to be the time for leaving or parting, but on the other hand, it has led me to a point of keeping those I dearly love more tightly and strongly in my heart. I will keep trying to fill my sad and sour hollow in my life with blessings that I have. They are my memories shared with those special people that no one can steal. That way, I’m gonna make this change in my life as seamless as possible to go ahead for another day like peaceful yesterday. No need to bedizen myself with a fake smile as I wrap up this year, but instead I rather feel calm like a survivor after the stormy days. Adieu 2017!

Thursday, December 7, 2017

Peoria on My Mind

Peoria on My Mind
by Jean Lee





Love the corn fields in Summer time vast and wide;
Colorful autumn is such a winsome time.
Wintry air has made me a good cook of soups with pride;
Spring rain brings out flowers in their prime.

When I used to stumble and fall,
You were there;
Over good times, bad times, and all,
Showing me a sunny smile so rare.

When hope seems like the last thing to expect,
You don’t say “can’t” or “never”.
That’s why you’re the one to respect,
and we’ll be on your side forever.

If some time I look back on my good old days,
You will be right there in my memory.
As the unforgettable light that stays,
You will keep brightening up my life so happily.

I’m leaving my heart with you, Peoria.
You will always be my home of euphoria.

Friday, December 1, 2017

How to Face the Loss of Your Loved Ones

Everyone goes through the points in life when they lose the most precious and beloved persons to them. When they are in the sad phase of life, people send them heartfelt prayers, warm thoughts, and deep condolences. To some, it takes a few years to reel from their sorrow….no, it takes forever to survive the feelings of emptiness and hollow in heart until the very last day of their lives.
This week, I would like to share a link that shows us how to cope with the loss of our loved ones.



STEP 1: ALLOW THE FEELINGS

Coping with the loss of a loved one brings up almost every emotion imaginable. There are times when more than one emotion seems to take hold at once, and you may feel as if you're “going crazy.” It's natural to feel this way, as it's normal to experience a number of different feelings.

Gently remind yourself in your time of bereavement and grief that your feelings are yours, and they are well within the norm. It's important to your process to understand that there is no "right" or "wrong" when it comes to your feelings about losing a loved one.

STEP 2: GATHER SUPPORT

While there may be times as you are coping with loss when you'll wish to be alone, it's important to gather a support group around you for those times when you might need them. Friends, family, a minister or rabbi, and perhaps a therapist are all people who can and should be accessed during your grief process. These individuals can be a source of emotional support as well as physical needs, if required. The death of a loved one often leaves a large hole in the life of the survivor that can be, at least temporarily, occupied by a support team.

STEP 3: ALLOW THE GRIEVING PROCESS

Bereavement and grief is a process. It's important to know that every person has their own way of coping with loss. You cannot put a time limit on your grief. You must allow yourself to experience the stages of grief as they come up.

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, in her book, On Death and Dying, outlined five stages of grief. Each stage is unique and is not necessarily experienced in order. Stages may also be revisited. These stages are:

Denial: Your experience is incomprehensible, initially. You find it impossible to believe the loss of your loved one is real, and you may be numb from the experience.
Anger: As the truth of the situation begins to take hold, it's normal to feel anger and rage. This anger may be directed at yourself, the loved one for leaving you, doctors for not healing your loved one or even at God.
Bargaining: It's not unusual for survivors to cope with loss by trying to negotiate, usually with their higher power. Don't be surprised if you find yourself trying to make an “if only” deal with God.
Depression: The overwhelming sadness you feel is normal, and in most cases will not last forever. It's common to feel as if life will never be the same.
Acceptance: While this final stage of bereavement and grief is called “acceptance,” this refers to coming to terms with the finality of the loss and moving forward with your life. It does not mean that, from time to time, you may not revisit some of the stages listed above, but rather that the pain of your loss will become more manageable.

STEP 4: EMBRACE LIFE

Author David K. Switzer talks about the need to rediscover one’s own life in his book Dynamics of Grief: Its Source, Pain, and Healing. While the pain of your loss is real and must be felt, there will come a time when you must begin to live your own life again. By working through overcoming the death of a loved one, you will come to a place of accepting the death as a reality. You will find yourself able to move forward and embrace your life without your loved one by your side.


Your process through bereavement and grief are your own. Everyone responds differently to coping with loss. Above all, be kind to yourself and know that you will wake one day and find the pain is less, and life can go on.

Friday, November 24, 2017

Cooking Terms

‘Tis the season to be jolly and relaxed. However, to some people out there, it could make a grueling time slaving in front of the kitchen stove and oven all night and day. Speaking of cooking, why don’t we work on cooking terms this week? (A lot of cooking terms came from France or Italy.) Here they are!
(source from www.dictionary.com )
After going over the following cooking terms, try to fill in the blanks below them.

brine (verb or noun)
Brining (usually a turkey) is basically just the process of adding salt. It can be through a soak in a water mixture or simply by shaking salt directly on to the turkey. This is how you avoid that dry Thanksgiving turkey you may remember as a kid. However, don't tell your mom that!

al dente (phrase)
Al dente is considered the ideal texture for pasta. It’s not too soft, but not too firm. The Italian term literally translates as “to the tooth.” Think of it as pasta with just the right amount of “bite.” It’s not totally raw and crunchy in the middle, but it’s not a pile of mush either. Frequent taste tests during the boiling process will help you learn how to perfect this texture.

au gratin (phrase)
When something is au gratin, it means it’s cooked or baked with a topping of either browned bread crumbs and butter or grated cheese (both if you’re lucky!). It’s as easy as sprinkling some cheese and/or bread crumbs on top of a dish before popping it into the oven. Now instead of saying “cheesy potatoes,” you can say “potatoes au gratin” and sound fancy AF.

Béchamel (noun)
A béchamel is a white sauce. But, not just any white sauce. It’s one of the five “mother sauces”—the foundation sauce categories that practically all sauces are based upon (in French cooking, anyway). To make most of these sauces, start off with a thick paste called a roux (a cooked mixture of equal parts butter, or other fat, and flour). To transform roux into béchamel, add milk until it reaches a more sauce-like consistency. And, this is actually a key step in making macaroni and cheese from scratch.

double boiler (noun)
This is the secret to kitchen witchcraft like melting chocolate on the stove without burning it. It’s a tool that consists of two pots that nest in each other. In the bottom pot, which sits on the stove, add water. As it comes to a boil, it will gently heat the top pot with the power of steam.

stock vs. broth (noun)
They’re right next to each other at the grocery store, and they seem so similar it can be tough to know the difference between the two. Is there even a difference? While both are made by boiling meat, fish, chicken, or vegetables in water for several hours, the process for making stock always includes bones. That said, stock tends to have a thicker, more gelatinous mouthfeel, and it also tends to have more flavor.

to poach (verb)
They say there are 100 ways to cook an egg. Out of all of them, poaching is probably one of the most frustrating. Poaching involves cooking something (whether it’s an egg, fruit, fish, etc.) in a hot liquid that’s kept just below its boiling point. The word comes from the Middle French word poche, which literally means “bag” or “pocket.” Poached eggs tend to come out with the still-runny yolk wrapped inside the solid white (Kind of like a pocket, right?).

to sauté vs. to deep-fry (verb)
When you sauté something, you cook it in a pan with a small amount of oil or other fat, and stir the food by moving the pan to toss it in the air. The word means “jump” in French, so you can think of it as making the food jump as you cook it. This is that fancy signature move you see on all the cooking shows. Pan-frying is basically the same thing. Deep-frying is totally different. It's when you use enough oil to cover the food you are cooking. We’d recommend using a tall-sided pot or pan for that. Safety first.


<Fancy knife work>
to mince: (verb) cutting something (usually food) into very small pieces. Finely cut the veggie in one direction, then cut across those original slices to make teeny-tiny pieces. Voilà: minced veggies.

to dice: (verb) cutting something into small cubes (like a six-sided die). Take a potato, trim off the sides so it is now a rectangular potato, and then cut that rectangle crosswise and lengthwise into little cubes.

To slice: (verb) to slice is to cut a thin, flat piece . . . like sliced ham or bread.

To julienne: (verb) a pretty, chef-y way of saying “cut into thin strips or small, matchstick-like pieces.” It can be an adjective (e.g. “julienne carrots”) or a verb (“Get out there and try julienning some carrots!”).

Check out the cooking terms now!
  1.   When you make Korean Chop-Chae noodle dish, every ingredients needs to be ________________________.
  2.   In order to cook Turkey, _____________________ the poultry for a couple of hours in advance so that the meat is juicy and properly salted.
  3.   For the curry sauce, I will ______________ the carrots, onions, potatoes, and beef into small pieces and _____________________ them in the saucepot with some butter and grape seed oil.
  4.   Many of Southern soul foods in the States are __________________________ and a bit greasy.
  5.   Eggs Benedict is a traditional American brunch or breakfast dish that consists of two halves of an English muffin each of which is topped with Canadian bacon, ham or sometimes bacon, a_________________ egg, and hollandaise sauce.
  6.   A _______________________ is two pots: a large one that looks a lot like a regular saucepan and a smaller, more shallow pan that nestles inside. It's used for cooking delicate ingredients that have a tendency to seize or separate over direct heat, as when tempering chocolate, whisking up a egg-based sabayon, or keeping gravy warm.
  7.   One of the basic skills to hone while learning how to cook sauce, working on ____________________, also known as white sauce, should be the first step. You need whole milk to be heated and thickened with a roux for this sauce.
  8.   Most cooks advise you to cook your pasta ____________________, but I personally prefer softer texture of my noodles.
  9.   Mozzarella cheese sticks wrapped with thinly __________________ ham named Prociutto is such a great and quick protein fix after a long run!
 10. Hans loves Mostaccioli au ___________________ at the Italian restaurant Avanti’s! Something baked with cheese on top is his favorite.
 11. You don’t need to buy beef bones to make some simple and clear _______________. It is not as thick as stock.
 12. I ___________________ beef, kimchi, and mixed them in with mashed tofu and bean sprouts to make Korean style dumplings.
           

Answer Keys 
  1.   julienned
  2.   brine
  3.   dice, sauté
  4.   deep-fried
  5.   poached
  6.   double boiler
  7.   béchamel
  8.   al dente
  9.   sliced
  10. gratin
  11. broth
  12. minced     

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