Thursday, April 13, 2017

Are You the Person Who is Wholeheartedly Happy for Friends?

“A friend in need is a friend indeed.” Yes, I have no gonzo to say that I go against the big idea of this old proverb. When I’m in the soup, I turn to someone who is all ears to my predicament or hardships. That someone could be your hubby, childhood buddy, parents, or the regular crowd in your time slot at the gym. They would feel for your tearful stories and become bitterly silent at the news of your devastation.  But then, I wonder how many of those friends would genuinely feel excited, jump up and down with joy, and give hearty congratulations when they see or hear about my happiest moment or incident? There’s an old saying in Korea that goes “One has an upset stomach with jealousy when their cousin becomes rich.” This expression might penetrate deep down inside common people’s mind. However, in the back of their mind, they wish to live on some kind of mantra or motto that matches our belief that “United we stand, divided we fall!” Yes,  sadness will become smaller and happiness will  become bigger if shared with others, isn’t it?

Expressions
gonzo: (noun = adjective) (of journalism, reportage, etc.) filled with bizarre or subjective ideas, commentary, or the like.
crazy; eccentric.

to be in the soup: (verb) to be in trouble

to feel for...: (verb) to feel sympathy for or compassion toward; empathize with:

mantra: (noun) a word or formula, as from the Veda, chantedor sung as an incantation or prayer/ an often repeated word, formula, or phrase, often atruism

Here are some ways to express how happy you are and congratulate people when something wonderful happens to them. The occasions might include graduation, wedding, birthday, college admission, business startup, winning lotteries, ……….or breakup with a nasty partner or happy divorce. ;-) 

Congratulations or congrats (on…..)

Roses are red, violets are blue! Congrats!

Felicitations! It’s your day!

Hip, hip, hurrah! Or Hip hip hurray!

Three cheers (for…..)!

Kudos!

Props!

Hats off (to you)!

Mazel tov! (Jewish expression of congratulating)

I’m so happy for you!

Wow! Groovy!

Nifty! / Amazing!

Future (rockstar/ scientist/ CEO/president/NBA player…etc)! Keep shining!

Super!

Cream of the crop achievement!







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